When was the last time you experienced a performance review? I receive them every time I speak. I might receive 50 positive comments sprinkled nicely with insights, a-ha moments, and compliments. Sometimes there’s that one disgruntled person who has critical remarks and put-downs. Guess which comment I am ruminating on hours later? Yeah, you got …
Fear and trepidation or awe and wonder – two extremes of perception. Smack in the middle of these, there’s languishing – a gray, empty land where the mood is blah and the motivation is non-existent. As we venture into 2022, where are you? Admittedly, I was in between… but I call it living in the …
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A recent intimidating encounter with an antagonist that was rude, loud, arrogant, mean, and aggressive taught me a fresh lesson about the need to be able to affirm your bold identity. A friend of mine who has backyard chickens was hospitalized and since I live in the country and supposedly know about these things, I …
The human race has one really effective weapon, and that is laughter.-Mark Twain As the Corona Virus scare has crossed borders and oceans and affected almost every country in the world, we’ve declared war against an invisible enemy. We see the data, take the precautions, and stock up on weapons – in this case antiseptic …
Disaster struck on Oct 10, 2018 – 6 months ago to this day. We had a 48 hour window of time from when Michael came into the Gulf of Mexico as a Category 1 storm to when it plowed into us as a Category 4.9 with winds of 155 mph. There was nothing that could …
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When I was a child, one of my favorite toys was Bozo the clown. Our inflatable Bozo might have been 3 feet tall, which means he was about the same size as me. Bozo provided my first lessons in resilience and consistency. I could bop him in the nose and he would bounce right back. …
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Nature speaks and I am listening. A decade ago, when I studied in Central America with the Rainforest Business Institute, I was fascinated by the opportunity to apply lessons from nature found within the world’s most productive ecosystem to principles of business. Because of my educational background in horticulture, concepts such as biodiversity, symbiotic relationships, …
Thrive, not strive is my new mantra. Rise and grind is how tons of people start Monday. Rush, work, and strive through pressure, stress, and frustration. If this sounds all too familiar, it’s time to make room for thriving and flourishing. How can you shift negativity into motivation? Wouldn’t it be grand if instead of …
Self-Limiting Beliefs A small incident last week put me face to face with the reality of self-limiting beliefs. It wasn’t a life-changing issue, but it brought to mind the weightier beliefs we all have that don’t serve us well. Often, they show up in our self-talk. “I could never write a book.” “I’m no good …
I spent every summer of my childhood at my grandmother’s beach house in North Florida, cavorting with my cousins in the waters of the bay that served as our back yard. We always had crab traps and it was a grand adventure every day to haul them up from the edge of the dock to check …