Emotional Quotient (EQ) has been in the forefront of research on human performance for at least two decades, yet many still haven’t heard the news: EQ is more important than IQ. In other words, caring, compassion, and the desire to invest relationally counts more in creating success than grades, degrees and diplomas. What is EQ? …
Unity is one of the most effective ways to achieve progress in anything. It is one of the most powerful forces on the planet, which explains why it’s so difficult to obtain, much less sustain. Unity is oneness, yet it exponentially multiplies the magnitude of any effort. Too little is written about it, perhaps because …
Thrive, not strive is my new mantra. Rise and grind is how tons of people start Monday. Rush, work, and strive through pressure, stress, and frustration. If this sounds all too familiar, it’s time to make room for thriving and flourishing. How can you shift negativity into motivation? Wouldn’t it be grand if instead of …
Be the Momentum: 5 Ways to Create Momentum in Your Life Ever stood at the edge of the high dive, looked down, and hesitated? Granted, it’s been a few years since I ventured onto the high dive platform. My own memories take me back to Sun-N-Fun in Sarasota and having a line of kids at …
There are never a shortage of students when I teach workshops on “Dealing with Difficult People.” It’s fascinating, and not surprising that the interest in this topic doesn’t wane. A willingness to engage in difficult conversations is one of the keys to transforming a difficult relationship into a healthy one. Today’s vlog gives some highlights …
Leadership leaves a legacy. Senator John McCain wrote a farewell statement to America before his passing on August 25, 2018 at age 81. As a student of leadership, and one who loves America passionately, I am moved deeply by the words of John McCain. (I took the liberty to bold some text within his message.) …
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Self-Limiting Beliefs A small incident last week put me face to face with the reality of self-limiting beliefs. It wasn’t a life-changing issue, but it brought to mind the weightier beliefs we all have that don’t serve us well. Often, they show up in our self-talk. “I could never write a book.” “I’m no good …
There is a high price we have all paid for every convenience the Digital Age offers. Now, instead of having a conversation when a quick answer is needed, we ask Alexa. Or Google a phrase and get millions of answers in seconds. It’s handy, but we’ve lost something valuable in the process. A Facebook post …
Our lives succeed or fail one conversation at a time. It’s easy to dismiss this notion, but the power of our words is inestimable. The art of engaging in clear, confident, and coherent conversation seems to be going the way of the fax machine. The major difference is that the value of face-to-face communication skills will …
Last week, I attended the promotion and pinning ceremony for the South Walton Fire Department. Our son was recognized as a new officer – a result of hard work and determination as he developed his leadership abilities and technical acumen. It was such a privilege to be among the family, friends, and off-duty officers who …